Kissinger’s call for detente would make a lot more sense if the analog to “cyber” was the cold war, MAD, etc.
It is not.
I have a lot of respect for the former SECSTATE, but to be mildly uncharitable, he doesn’t really have a lot to add to this discussion. None of his cold war ilk do. “Cyber” is pretty much the closest thing to a perfect weapon anyone has seen in history (you can claim “it wasn’t me!” and no one can prove definitively otherwise in a meaningful time frame). Proposed solutions that ignore or give short shrift to this basic fact are a colossal waste of time, which is all cold war retreads have at this point. No one who can use “cyber” as a meaningful weapon for intelligence or combative activities is going to surrender one byte of capability. No security regime that has been proposed stands up to a modicum of scrutiny once the most basic, practical issues are raised. We need to hear proposals that have at least one foot rooted in reality because the threat is here and now; ideas whose success depends on a world that doesn’t currently exist and is unlikely to (did I mention no one in their right might would give up capability? I did, good) are consuming cycles we could be using to come up with something practical.